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Post by mpsinghtanwar on Aug 29, 2012 11:13:20 GMT 5.5
Ram-Ram I read in this forum about the biggest marriage. Can I ask what was the biggest in that marriage, only the wastage of money which makes the economically middle and lower class people afraid of having a daughter. If our children are doing good in life then what is need of dowry, if we brought up our daughters well and educate her then what else is left for dowry? This revolution can't be spread overnight in the whole society but if a handful of people start and step forward against this and marry their children without this evil then the result would be great. Our people gather and so called (samaj ke neta) they talk and teach people not to give or take dowry but when their childrens get married they forget everything. People in our Samaj make it a prestigeous issue which is wrong .They don't compare good things with other casts,their childrens are getting throuh in civil services and other good jobs in life Atleast start thinking and be prepare for upcoming marriages in your family. Be the first against it,lead the way. There is a time in my childrens marriage but I have madeup my mind what I have to do. And god will help me in my aim.
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Post by Ashok Harsana on Aug 29, 2012 19:05:31 GMT 5.5
Nice Thoughts...Welcome to the Forum Tanwar ji
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Post by vijendrasingh1967 on Nov 24, 2012 17:30:30 GMT 5.5
I think dowry in our samaj is deeply rooted . everybody knows it is wrong but--------not stopped
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Post by vikasbidhuri97 on Nov 25, 2012 13:50:51 GMT 5.5
Ab jo bhi h bhai ji chalna to samaj ke hishab se hi padega. Jab tak amir apni shadiyo me dowry system ban nahi karenge tab tak garibo ko to gudna hi padega
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Post by mpsinghtanwar on Dec 1, 2012 15:25:11 GMT 5.5
absolutely right Bidhuri ji . This can only be stopped when people who are capable of spending money stop it.
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Post by tomar999 on Dec 1, 2012 17:47:09 GMT 5.5
we also have to start educating the girls in our community
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Post by vikasbidhuri97 on Dec 2, 2012 11:26:25 GMT 5.5
Bhai ladke to padhne ko taiyar nahi h aap ladkiyo ki baat kar rahe ho. aaj ke waqt me har gurjar ladka ya to politician banna chahta h ya bodybuilder inse aage to koi sochne ko taiyar nahi h
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