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Post by mpsinghtanwar on Aug 28, 2012 14:44:28 GMT 5.5
Hi,I am new to you all. This is really a topic which concerns me a lot. Marriage in our own cast means preserving the social values and our culture. Any of ours brother ,sister,son,daughter or any relative can be a part of intercaste marriage that doesn't mean we kill him in the nme of honour. We have to provide our sisters and daughters all those freedom,respect and faith which we provide to our our boys.We will see that they will never do an act which will dishonour us, if they are well educated and can think of their good or bad and they opt for an intercaste marriage then they might be right. For boys who cross the age of marriage we can go to Bengal,M.P and wherever we find a girl including we offer money . I am not favouring intercaste marriage ,actually it is a big issue in our community and we need to resolve it
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Post by surender bhati on May 6, 2014 15:57:16 GMT 5.5
I think every comunity has got its own tradition but killing in the name of honour can't be justified any way as it not only takes life but neither does any right to the honour of the family practising it, "as two wrongs can't make a right " . If anyone especialy a girl makes up her mind for an intercaste mariage she must make sure that the guy she chosed is a good person because in case of intercaste affair if there is any trouble to her then comunity can't help as the other person will not abide by its decision , so make right choice and be happy. And for those questioning guts of my comunity i would like to tell him that the case of honour killing is not severe in our comunity and moreover we don't kill girls in name of dowry nor there is that practice of female feoticide in our samaj like in other comunity .gghg
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