why intercaste?why not interstate in owncaste?

[harsh chaudhary]

HI TO ALL MY GURJARS BRO'S .
BRO'S RECENTALY I REALISED THAT THE TREND OF GETTING MARRIED IN OTHERS IS BECOMING VERY POPULAR IN OUR BIRADARI. I ANALYSED THE FACT AND FIND OUT THAT THE YOUTH OF THE SOCIETY NEED SOME CHANGE AND WANT TO EXPLORE THE WORLD. HENCE THEY WANT TO BREAK THE RULES OF THE SOCIETY AND DON'T WANNA TO STICK TO THE RULES AND RITUELS OF THE BIRADARI. ITS A WORRYING SITUATION FOR ALL OF US WHO BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE AMONG CASTE.
BUT WE CAN FIND OUT THE SOLUTION WITHIN THIS THOUGHT ITSELF.THAT IS GO FOR THE OTHER STATES FOR YOUR CHILDREN MARRIAGES AND OTHER CULTURES OF THE GURJARS ONLY. I MEAN TO SAY THAT A HARYANVI CAN MAKE RELATION IN GUJARAT .. A HIMACHALI CAN BRING HIS SON'S BRIDE FROM M.P. AND A DELHITE GURJAR CAN MARRY HIS DAUGHTER INPUNJAB AND SO ON.... ITS LOOKS MAY LOOK FUNNY TO SOMEONE BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE AND IT IS PRACTICLE TOO.
BUT I HAVE SOME DOUBT IN MIND THAT THE PEOPLES WHO ARE RUNNING BEHIND THE DOWRY MAY AVE SOME PROBLEM WITH THIS IDEA AND CAN CALL ME THE FOOL. LET THEM TO SAY ... BUT WILL IT BE GOOD THAT YOUR SON WILL MARRY TO A GIRL OF ANOTHER CASTE AND DEFAME YOUR GLORY HENCE ITS THE RIGHT TIME TO THINK BRO'S
SOME WILL THINK THAT WILL THE PERSON WRITING THIS POST IMPLEMENT TO HIMSELF. ANSWER IS YES .MY UNCLE IS GOING TO MARRY HIS SON IN M.P. (GWALIOR) SEE THE CHARM OF THE MARRIGE . AS WE ARE FROM HARYANA (KAITHAL) . ALL OF OUR FAMILY MEMBERS ARE BUSY IN PREASSUMPTIONS THAT HOW WILL BE THE CULTURE OF THESE GURJARS ?ARE THEY LIKE US? WILL THEY BE COMFORTABLE WITH US AND VICE VERSA? AND SO ON ..
SO I REQUEST TO ALL OF YOU CHAUDHARIS OF BIRADARI TO CONSIDER THE MATTER AND IF SOME ONE IS HURT BY THE COMMENT PLEASE PARDON....... THANKS
JAI GURJAR

[CHAUHAN]

Bhai vaaaaaah harsh tune mere dil ki bat bol di yara.m fully in support of u... Kuch Esa hi ek topic maine strt kia tha bt pta ni kyo dat was dltd... Intrcst mrg se hmari race ki purity b gir rahi h nd interstate mrg se hmari unity incrs hogi.

[CHAUHAN]

ua,up,nd hryana k kuch gujjars jo financly jyada week h nd jinki mrg ni ho pati h wo bahar se lwst casts ki grls kharid k la rahe h, is it nt psbl k unki rltnshp rajsthn ya mp me ho jae nd wats d futur of our race in dis way of buyng brides....

[harsh chaudhary]

hi harsh bro,
how r u. bhai maine apni life main being a gurjar bahut si baaatein annalyse ki hai. one of them is humari cast me aur castes ki tarah koi gaut badi ya choti nahi hoti. agar koi kisi se kahe de to bas ladai pakki .. is it or not? but u tell me agar we will keep this fashion of getting marriage in ohter caste then bhai vo definately degrade hone chahiye like our great ancestors did. they boycot their sons and daughters from the society. but it is not praticle now a days
hence i say don't proud on your gaut and show to others that only some of us are great..... every one of the gurjar in the world is a veer and great personality ... what i think so .
are u getting what i am trying to say. hence we shouldn't proud amongst gurjars and hence to boost the unity of our caste.aur ye baat bilkuk sahi hai ki haryana and delhi me log bahar se girls buy kar ke late rather to marry in rajesthan or in m.p.
i totaly agree with u but bro our elders normally says yahan ke gurjaro se hamri nahi banti vahan ke gurjaro se hamari nahi banti to kahan se banti hai tell us...... only money se banti haiiiii....
am i right ? bro we are on a good platform and do something for this particular matter...
thanks bye

[HARSH CHAUDHARY]

SORRY BRO SANDY APNA NAAM JYADA LIKHNE KI AADAT PAK GAYI HAII ..... HAAAAAA
BYEEEE....

[CHAUHAN]

Hii harsh bhai m fyn. Sorry i'll reply it 2mrw coz m usng phon nw nd can insrt lmtd words...bt m worried yar y people r nt replng on so much ntrstng imp topic... Perhps they r ntrstd only in countng of mla/mp's etc... Where all r busy.

[CHAUHAN]

Nd on so much imp topic of hindu muslim gujjar marige evryone is silent, i specialy appeal to muslim bro. Mazhar bhai nd also harshana bhai ... Please share ur views bcoz we want to reach on a conclusn.

[CHAUHAN]

ya harsh bhai u r saying correct, some of us try to show as they r best among gujjar biradri....nd dont thnk dat iska biradri k bahar kya msg jaega........nd if we people will make reltnshp to onothr states it will bring us closer..... nd all gujjars of india will b united..... nd agar hindu muslim marriges hone lge to hmari power kai guna bdh jaegi ....nd we'll present an ideal of secularism in india nd pakistan.
bro aaj situation ye h k up ka ek common gujjar rajsthan wale k bare me bahut km janta h nd delhi wala UA wale k bare me nd jb relationshp hongi to comm ka face badal jaega.we'll b more familiar wid gujjars of onothr part of country.
nd i m worried mostly about people who r marying into othr casts,it will definately decrease our purity, but y my brothers r nt rplng harshana brother is also not saying something.

[Ashok Harsana]

Yes, I agree. Gujjars should get married in their own caste as this will maintain the purity of our distinct race.