Should Gurjars have their own Khap-Panchayats?

[Subhash chand Gujar]

Dear Mr. Ravi, I do support your view....
Subhash chand Gujar
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[Davinder mawai]

I endorse your views and we must do something to discourage this "Same- gotra Marriage" deviations.
Davinder mawai
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[Surendra Gurjar]

. Hello All Gurjar Bhai,

This is Surendra Gurjar working as senior software engineer at Bangalore. I am agree with our gurjar bhais' view so we should not marry in same gotra.

Thanx and Regards:
Surendra Gurjar
9008093980, Bangalore.
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[Jitendra Gurjar]

Hello to all

Bhai Ravi has raised a very good issue.. We should come forward and express our opinion on this..

Gurjar community have the very strong tradition and its own values & ethics but unfortunately our culture, values had been repressed hard by people who do not want our community to grow .. History says it all

Now its upto us to secure and garnish the heritage of ours community.. We should strongly condemn the inter-caste marriage and encourage make effort to keep younger generation to our roots...

We should make them aware of our vast reach culture, values which had been brought in to bad name by britishers and other invaders.

I also like to add that we should boycott those who favors inter caste marriage. Hukka - pani band karne ki pratha phele thi..

reagrds
Jitendra
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[Deepak Mavi]

Hi Ravi,

Me aap ki bat se shamet hu me khud eak multinational company me kam karta hu lekin
apni sanskirti or riti rewaj kabi nahi bhulta me app bhai logo se yehi kahunga ki hame jo
virasat me mela hi use next pedi ko bhe dena hi.

Regard
Deepak Mavi
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[Jai Gujjar]

Hi,

I have found it very useful discussion about my identity which make me to interact with this discussion. I don’t want to discuss about marriage, I learn one thing that come from my family and the society I am living. Today , what is happening about these marriage it is not a mistake of the guys or girls which are going to do this type of marriage, it is mistake of their parent which are totally fails to teach them their custom and values. So it is useless to blame the guys or girls. We don’t have right to kill anybody but we should analyze the root cause of the problem and then remove it and it is family and family is made by a single person.

If any part of body got cancer , it better to remove that part from body else it will cause the death but here removing doesn’t mean that we needs to kill, it God duty to give us punish we are not suppose to harm anybody but we can try to resolve the problem by talk or any other mean.

I don’t know how many people talk about education, but everybody talk about marriage and all that. If really we want to stop all these same nonsense we needs to educate our self. According to Ravi g , he mentioned that some more educated people are doing all this but am opposing this thought, If we are not educated then it directly leads to ignorance and cause all the problem. I understand my custom by reading more books about it and my caste so please don’t blame education 4 this.
I have checked all the case which are happened currently in Haryana and Meerut, Muzzafarnagr and there is not a single case which was educated, could your please give me your view on it. I am not opposing you but putting my view on it.

So, please increase awareness about education rather than other politically incorrect issue. So, please try to make a forum to help our community and give them better futhur.

I know now we are leading in education too but we need more and more effort in this area. I totally agree with Mr. Hari’s point 4 education.

Plz don’t take anything wrong abt my view, It is my personally opinion, I am very glad to have this great effort from Mr.Ravi.

Please be in touch and write ..Please ignore if any one feel bad.

Jai Gujjar….
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[Abrar Chowdhary KPS]

Nice write-up Mr. Ravi Kasana,,,I have many Kasana relatives----be in touch plz
Abrar Chowdhary, KPS
JK/Jammu.
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[Deepak Mavi]

Hi Devender,

devenderji app se ek bat puchta hu ? agar baisla parivaar sabko bhai,bahan, chacha ,tau kahta hoga to fer us gaon me bhati parivaar ko bhi baisla parivaar me shadi karne ka kya huk hai.
Kya us (chitehra) gaon me baisla parivaar ki ladki nahi hai?

Regard
Deepak Mavi
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[Ravi Kasana]

Bhai Davender or Bhai Harichand ji....mein Bhai Deepak Mavi ki baat se purnteh sehmat hoon..ke agar Baisla parivaar chethera gaon mein sab Bhatio ko Bhai Bhen .chacha tau samajhta han to Bhati bhi Baislo ko Bhai Bhen hi samajhte honge to fir Bhatio ke gharo mein Baisla gotra ki ladkiya kyon bihayi hui han ...Kiya yeh aniti nahi han ......yeh to Bhaiyo ek tarfa waali baat han ...Bhaiyo mein yahan faridabad mein rehta hoon or humare yahan padosh mein 4-5ghar gujjaro ke han jinmey se kuch bhatio ke han...kuch tanwaro ke han ...kuch chaprano ke han...or kuch nagaro ke han or hum sabmein bhaichara han ..to Bhaiya harichand or Bhai davender apke hisaab se to in gotro mein to humari shadi nahi ho sakti han..to Bhaiya agar iss rule ko hum folow karte rahe to hum mein se kissi bhi bhai or bhen ki shadi nahi hogi..or bhai agar koi ladkti chithera mein bhati gotra ki aati han to Bhai bhen ka rista bhatio mein hoga na ki baislo mein.......Bhaiyo mein samajhta hoon ke ye Bhai Bhen ki limitation uss jagah tak simiit rehni chahiye jahan aap reh rahe han ..or jinko aap iss reation mein maante han......
Regards
Ravi kasana
vil & post jawli

[Arvind Rathaur]

Bhai logo,

I think we should have one voice we are debating on the topic that is not going to give anything to anyone. It is understood that there should not be any marriage inter gotra.
There is no harm if someone is marrying to a girl not of his gorta and also not of his mother gotra.
I want to understand here that if there are 05-06 gotra in a village that means as per current things one has to search a boy or a girl leaving his gorta and 12 other. This seems to be very confusing.
It is such a vast topic that will be never end up with one voice.
Better is to avoid.

Regards
Arvind Rathaur
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